Whyd this guy get all touchy on me and then when I get clingy he doesn't like?

He is one of those men that only wants what he can't have. They are very common and come a dime a dozen. If you reject him then he wants you but then when you are his and want him, he backs off and no longer wants you. I use to have a boyfriend just like that. Best thing is not to waste your time. Men like that never change. You need a man that feels the same way about you day to day.